Who am I? And Other Questions from Childhood...
I just spent the last several weeks working on a project for school and in the course of that work, something struck me. Children from broken homes loose their identities. People often assume that the affect of separation and divorce on a child is an emotional and psychological issue, and to an extent they are correct. But it is also an ontological issue as well...in fact, I would go so far as to say that it's almost all an identity issue. The two people who's very coming together was the reason you exist are no longer together, hence, at the very core of your being, you question the reason for your existence. Hence, kids from broken homes begin to act out in ways informed by the search for identity. This is something that I had not thought of before. My own memories of what it felt like to experience my parents separation were overshadowed by the sexual abuse that began within months of that event but I will say this - I always thought my ...